What It Was Like to Get Married During Macklemore's Grammy Performance

So, what was that moment like, exactly? Pennington recently told her story of how the couple came to be part of the mass ceremony on SheWired. She answered a casting call for a “diverse group of couples who wanted to get married at a huge event,” and only when they had been selected to participate did they learn the wedding would be part of the Grammys. “We were so nervous and curious about where they would fit the mass wedding into the Grammys,” she writes.

The Friday before the show we flew to Los Angeles excited to hear
about details of the rehearsal that would take place the next day. We
couldn’t eat anything; all the excitement had taken over. It wasn’t
until we arrived at the Staples Center for rehearsal, just one day
before the Grammys, that we were told we would be married during
Macklemore’s performance of “Same Love.” All along I had hoped it would
have to do with that song because of its universal power. Then, Queen
Latifah walked in as the officiate, followed by Madonna who would sing
during the performance. I was shocked to see that such amazing people
who would have a part in my wedding.

After doing a run-through of
the show my wife and I began to cry because the rehearsal was so moving.
We knew it was going to be a powerful performance. Neither one of us
slept well that night because we were so excited to get married. The day
of the Grammys we prepared with the other 32 couples in a tent that was
set up for us. That day I got to know some amazing people. Each couple
had a unique story. Each one of us was different but all were brought
together by love.

Of course, they got a little starstruck:

I heard the song start when it came time for us to head to the stage,
and I remember being so nervous knowing that the building was packed
with people. The crowd stood up and started cheering as we walked down
the aisle. At that point, surprisingly, all the nervousness went away
and all I wanted to do was cry. I looked over at my beautiful partner,
whom I love so much, and then I heard and saw people (Latifah, Madonna)
I’ve looked up to my whole life crying and cheering for something that
means so much to me… It was truly the most amazing feeling.

Pennington also addressed all the haters who scoffed at the idea of a mass ceremony at a televised, live event.

I have heard people saying on social media that the mass wedding was
just a show. Although the wedding was part of Macklemore’s performance,
it was still our wedding. Everyone shows love in his or her own
way. Marrying my wife in front of millions was my way of showing it.
While Queen Latifah was performing the ceremony, all I saw was my wife.
It was our moment that just so happened to air on TV, but it was not
just a show.

“I got to marry the love of my life in front of the world at the Grammys and I wouldn’t have done it any other way,” she writes. “Gay people have struggled and fought and continue to struggle all over
the world. The ability to be legally married and to be afforded the
rights we deserve is a moved mountain for us. I don’t think I ever
dreamed of being able to marry my wife legally, let alone to do it with
32 other couples on the Grammys. This battle has not been won for every
gay person around the world yet — but I hope our story gives people
hope.”