Madeline Davis and Wendy Smile of Buffalo, New York are planning to celebrate the state legalizing gay marriage by getting married in July — for the fifth time. The couple, who’ve been together for 17 years, have already had a religious wedding in Buffalo, a pagan ceremony in Cherry Creek, N.Y., a civil union in Vermont, and a wedding in Ontario, Canada. The multiple weddings are a touching sign of their commitment to one another — unless you’re one of the friends who’s expected to show up every time with a kitchen appliance.