My Expensive, Mysterious, Dense Breasts
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With the exception of my health insurance company, everybody loves my breasts: My kids, who, at aged 12 and 8, harbor vague but fond memories of having been breastfed well into toddlerhood. My husband (big surprise), who has observed their middle-aged growth spurt from a perfectly respectable 32C to a seriously impressive 32DD with great enthusiasm. My friend Jenn, who wishes she could borrow them for special occasions. My OB-GYN, who at my annual exam has been known to compliment them, which might sound really inappropriate but somehow doesn’t feel that way. Even my blind 22-year-old cat, who likes nothing better than a warm, soft surface upon which to recline. The only holdout is my insurer. Why? Because of money.
I have what are known as fibrocystic breasts. Practically speaking, this means that if you felt me up—not a high-school style feel-up that you sneak in when I’m not looking, but a really good, long rub topped off by a few gentle squeezes—you would probably notice that they’re kind of lumpy inside. (Of course, on the outside, they appear nice and smooth, though admittedly not as perky as they were in my 20s. Back then, as Quincy Jones and Robert DeNiro can attest, I was the sort of person who could go braless in a sundress to a party at Lawrence Bender’s house. But that’s another story.) Unlike the scary kinds of lumps that may be indicators of cancer, these lumps in my breasts are fluid-filled sacs that are totally harmless, if occasionally painful as they grow and shrink in response to monthly fluctuations in estrogen.
Medically speaking, it means that my breasts contain proportionally less fat than that of many other women (which cannot be said of my ass), and are therefore denser. This increased density means that basic mammograms—the kind women over 40 are advised to get annually to screen for breast cancer—are not particularly effective: as the authors of a study recently published in JAMA explained, “Breast density is associated with reduced mammographic sensitivity and specificity.”
In other words, these mammograms, which usually include just two to four pictures of each breast, aren’t likely to pick up the small solid masses that can be an early sign of breast cancer; these masses show up white on the resulting picture, like the dense tissue that already exists. A recent article in the Journal of Clinical Oncology put it plainly: “Dense breast tissue can hide cancer on mammography, especially when the cancer lacks calcifications, resulting in delayed diagnosis and worse outcomes.”
So my OB-GYN advises me to skip the screening mammogram altogether and go straight to a diagnostic mammogram with a follow-up breast ultrasound. Compared to screening mammograms, diagnostic mammograms include more pictures taken from more angles, so they’re better at finding sneaky lumps. The follow-up ultrasound—which, unlike X-ray-based mammograms, can distinguish between solid tissue and fluid—determines whether the found lumps are suspicious and require further examination, or if they’re merely harmless cysts.
Other tests that have been recommended for women with dense breasts include 3-D mammography (a.k.a. tomosynthesis) and magnetic resonance imaging (MRI). Recent studies have indicated that there are pros and cons—ranging from the possibility of “false positives” to cost to the availability of professionals qualified to carry out and/or analyze such tests—to each option. Therefore, at present, there is no single agreed-upon testing protocol for women with dense breasts, and a recent article in the American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology advised physicians to “discuss breast density as one of several important breast cancer risk factors, consider the potential harms of adjunctive screening, and arrive at a shared decision consistent with each woman’s preferences and values.”
Despite all this trouble, and as I’ve already mentioned, my OB-GYN loves my breasts. Sure, this is partly because they look great, but it’s also because he cares about me. This is a man who not only did a stellar job delivering my first daughter—he spent the vast majority of the 23-hour labor by my side instead of rushing around juggling a large number of patients in labor as is typical of many doctors these days—but also personally drove me to the hospital when, two weeks postpartum, I came down with a mystery infection and was doubled over in pain. (I didn’t have any other way of getting there, as my husband was assigned the unenviable task of staying home alone with our fussy newborn so as not to expose her undeveloped immune system to the variety of cooties one finds in a hospital.)
This is to say that I trust my OB-GYN, so when he says I need The Combo of a diagnostic mammogram and a breast ultrasound, I know that he isn’t just trying to get me to undergo an unnecessary procedure that my insurance doesn’t want to pay for. I know that he’s trying to help me achieve early detection in order to avoid early death.
And he’s not alone in understanding that breast density matters: 26 states have enacted mandatory breast density inform laws, which require mammogram providers to give patients some level of information about breast density following a mammogram.
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