This is a behind-the-scenes clip from the set of Only God Forgives of director violence-obsessed Nicolas Winding Refn explaining to a bemused Ryan Gosling how violence is like sex because “it’s all about the build up.” The moment Refn says this, Gosling looks directly at the camera and smirks, almost as if to say, “Hey girl, this is silly, isn’t it? Let’s watch Singin’ in the Rain and eat Ben & Jerry’s Mint Chocolate Cookie together as we admire Gene Kelly’s ability to dance away a horrible flu.”