Ask an Immigration Lawyer: Migrant Parents Face a Long, Complicated Road Ahead to Get Their Children Back
PoliticsAfter the official launch of Jeff Sessions’ “zero-tolerance policy” in April, which mandates the criminal prosecution of everyone who crosses the border without authorization, at least 2,300 children—over a hundred of whom are under the age of four—have been forcibly separated from their parents. (The Trump administration has insisted that those seeking asylum ought to simply cross at sanctioned ports of entry, but media reports have shown that asylum seekers are being repeatedly turned away, subjected to wait times of days or weeks in the desert heat.) Officials told reporters on Tuesday that they do not know how many of those children have been reunited with their parents. On Monday, ProPublica published a recording of young Central American children, aged approximately 4-10, sobbing for their parents inside a U.S. Customs and Border Protection detention facility.
There are, as of right now, no set protocols for reuniting families who have been separated; children and parents are funneled into two separate and highly complex systems, which immigration attorneys, advocates, and aid groups have been attempting to navigate. I spoke with Maria Woltjen, the executive director and founder of the Young Center for Immigrant Children’s Rights at the University of Chicago Law School, and Kelly Albinak Kribs, Immigrant Child Rights Fellow and staff attorney at the Young Center, to get a better idea of what this process actually looks like.
Once a parent can locate a child, they come to a crossroads.
Once a parent is charged with illegal entry, they’re taken into U.S. Marshal custody, then returned to ICE custody, and their child is handed off to the Office of Refugee Resettlement, which is part of the Department of Health and Human Services. They’ll face different legal timelines and potentially be moved around to separate parts of the country. With no internet, limited phone access, and extremely limited access to legal representation, it can be very difficult for a detained parent to find out where their child is in the first place—and once they do, their desperation to be reunited can impact their legal trajectory.
“Once a parent can locate a child, they come to a crossroads,” Albinak-Kribs told Jezebel. “There’s a crucial decision they have to make: Whether they want to stay and fight their legal case, fight for the right to stay here in the United States with their child, or whether they would just prefer to return home with their child. Depending on what the parent chooses, depending on their own personal circumstances, the process for reunification looks very different.” But both paths can take months.
This conversation has been lightly edited and condensed for length and clarity.
JEZEBEL: Can you start off by telling me a little bit about what you do at the Young Center?
MARIA WOLTJEN: We serve as child advocates for unaccompanied and separated kids. We are attorneys and social workers in our office, but we are not the legal representatives for the children. Our role is advocating for the best interests of the child, and we advocate all along the continuum: From detention, release, family reunification, to making sure kids have attorneys. The ultimate question is whether or not it would be safe for a child to return, if they have no choice but to return or if they’re asking to return to home country.
We get appointed as child advocates by the Department of Health and Human Services’ Office of Refugee Resettlement, and typically we’re appointed first while the kids are in custody, but we stay with the children’s cases throughout, so even after the children are released, our appointment as child advocate continues.
KELLY ALBINAK KRIBS: Our immigration system is incredibly complicated, and there are countless stakeholders that have the capacity to make decisions that affect these children’s lives, both kids who come here unaccompanied and kids who are separated from their parents. So our role is really to make recommendations to all those various stakeholders, from immigration judges to ORR officials that decide when a kid can be released from government custody, to individual attorneys for children to consulates to ICE officers, at times. We make recommendations to all those different parties about what is in the best interest of the child.
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