Miss World America Contestants Speak Out About Being Exploited and Humiliated
“Being Miss World America was horrible, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy,” said former titleholder Marisa Butler.
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After seven years of competing in state-level pageants, Marisa Butler had finally done it. All the velcroed sashes, hours of interview prepping, long waltzes across well-lit stages in uncomfortable heels, and waiting and waiting and waiting for them to call her name had finally paid off. In 2018, they did: Miss World America is Marisa Butler.
Butler had dreamed about the possibilities of her year-long reign as queen: She would set an example. She would give young women a voice. She would spend time in her community. And, unbeknownst to her, she would find herself at the Japanese restaurant Zuma in Las Vegas, wearing her sash and crown in public, while a male sponsor removed her utensils and forcibly hand-fed her sushi rolls in the most humiliating moment of her life.
Jacob Arabo (formerly Arabov), the owner of luxury jeweler Jacob & Co which had sponsored the 2019 Miss World America pageant, was seated at a table with Butler on the evening of October 11, 2019, at the Cosmopolitan hotel, as she attempted to eat her meal. But Butler says Arabo—or “Jacob the Jeweler” as he’s called by clients 50 Cent, Kanye West, Jay-Z, and now, the Kardashians—confiscated her chopsticks and proceeded to feed her sushi by hand, as national director Michael Blakey stood by.

“Michael was sitting right next to me and he was laughing along with Jacob,” Butler told Jezebel. “He wasn’t sticking up for me or saying how inappropriate this was, even though it was very clear that I was in distress and I was uncomfortable. I remember I just wanted to disappear.”
Butler says to this day, she has never felt more disrespected as a titleholder or as a woman than she did that night. “Being Miss World America was horrible, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy,” Butler said. (A PR representative from Jacob & Co denied the chopsticks incident via email, and Blakey ignored a request for comment.)
Pageants have evolved drastically over the last few decades, mostly eliminating swimsuit competitions, slowly making way for plus size contestants and the first transgender contestant, and rebranding themselves as positive arenas for female empowerment, where socially accepted standards of beauty are no longer a requisite.
But, as evidenced by the incident with Jacob the Jeweler, the misogynistic and profit-fueled culture of Donald Trump’s involvement with Miss Universe still permeates the industry, most notably in Miss World America, the subsidiary of the globally renowned pageant organization, Miss World, whose annual competition takes place on December 16.
Butler, now 27, says she felt “silenced and belittled” by the organization’s national leaders during her year-long reign. She claims she was pressured to sign a predatory contract for Blakey’s personal talent management company, and he asked her to pose in front of a Ferrari in a bikini in honor of Hump Day. She declined, and posed in a dress instead, as shown in an Instagram screenshot provided by Butler.
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