Why High-School Dating Sucks
LatestEveryone who has been to high school knows that dating in high school kind of blows. But now there is science!
According to Slate, a new study “confirms every suspicion you ever had about high-school dating.” Specifically, writes Annie Lowrey, most boys want to have sex, most girls don’t, and more sex happens at schools where boys have an advantage (ie, where they are scarce and therefore desired). The people most screwed (as it were) by this system are senior girls, who have the greatest “skew between stated sexual preferences and actual sexual activity” (they apparently feel they have to have sex in order to have a relationship), and freshman boys (as stereotype and Superbad say, they’d rather be boning more). This is all pretty sad, as is any study that shows people having sex when they don’t want it, and anything that seeks to explain human relationships in terms of “markets.” However, the study doesn’t come anywhere close to confirming every suspicion I have about high-school dating and sex. Here are a few it doesn’t cover:
High-school kids are even more status-obsessed than grownups, and they don’t even feel bad about it.