Things I’ve Heard About Thin Women
LatestI recently wrote a blog called 386,170 unhelpful things about the messages that I get from the world about my body. While I was researching it, some of the messages I heard were:
“Fat isn’t sexy, it’s a fact.”
“Men just don’t want obese women”
“Everybody knows you can’t be healthy and obese”
I don’t know about you, but I don’t enjoy getting those messages from society, it’s frustrating and it hurts my feelings.
Today while perusing some “size positive” blogs I found the following comments:
“Stick women just aren’t sexy, it’s just gross.”
“What man would want a twig anyway?”
“It’s just impossible to be healthy when you are that thin, you have to be anorexic or a drug addict to look like that” “Real women are curvy and LOOK like women”
I absolutely understand why people in the size positive community say things like this. It’s rare to see people on television and in commercials who look like us and that can be frustrating. We’re getting hundreds of thousands of negative messages about our bodies every year and we are tired, angry, and hurt. People with no health credentials feel completely justified in making assumptions about our health. Doctors make the same mistaken assumptions. It’s easy to transfer our frustration onto the people who represent “the other side”. Sometimes you’ve just taken all you can stand and you feel like you have to lash out. I get it – I really do, I’ve been there. That being said: