Does Knowing More About Sex Make You Want It Less?
Mary Roach wrote a whole book about it (Bonk) but certainly seems like she still has fun with it. The cervix photographer and her partner have new pictures of her post-orgasmic cervix, which means they’re still having fun. But many scientists wonder if sex knowledge is, well, ruining sex.
Bennett Gordon, writing for the Utne Reader, says:
Researchers often reduce sex down to its most basic, physical elements, viewing intercourse in terms of function and dysfunction, rather than idiosyncratic preferences.
He — and the Boston Globe‘s Drake Bennett — are (of course) mostly concerned about Viagra. The latter writes:
At its worst, they warn, [sex science] is pushing us into a sort of sexual arms race as people engage in sex acts that hold little interest for them, partake of a growing pharmacopeia of sex drugs, even get formerly unheard-of cosmetic surgeries to measure up to a fictional sexual ideal.
I don’t know that sex science is to blame for that as much as sex marketing — but Gordon and Bennet conflate the two.