Texas Judge Orders Man to Marry His Girlfriend or Go to Jail
In DepthCBS reports that neither Josten Bundy or his 19-year-old girlfriend, Elizabeth Jaynes were ready to get married at the time, nor did they ever think their choice of when to get married would be up for debate, but the Texas couple decided that tying the knot would be the best way to help Bundy both stay employed and keep his record clear. Bundy had even asked the judge for an opportunity to call his work to let them know about possible interruptions to his schedule due to jail time, but the judge refused, saying, “That’s not how this works.”
Aside from the fact that the judge sounds like a complete idiot who is very pleased with himself, and the fact that marriage isn’t a suitable punishment for a crime, Rogers also treated Jaynes like an object. She didn’t have a say in whether she was getting married because obviously she’d do anything to keep her boyfriend out of jail…? This punishment wouldn’t be appropriate in any situation (trust me, I’ve thought about it), but it’s even less appropriate because Jaynes loses any agency in the process. Why should the freedom of her significant other depend on her? Isn’t forcing Jaynes to be a party to this suggesting that somehow she’s responsible? And the “Is she worth it?” question drives home the point that Jaynes wasn’t so much a human concern for the judge as an object lesson. It’s kind of like those stories where a parent finds a kid smoking a cigarette so they make the child smoke a dozen more just to make sure little Bobby understands how awful and gross smoking is. Except in this case, the cigarettes are a real live person who is being manipulated by one of those “activist judges” we hear so much about.
Rogers, who also ordered Bundy to write bible verses (sigh..) and go to counseling (maybe the one good thing he ordered) probably feels like he’s done his civic duty and taught some young people about responsibility . You know how it is: if you love something so much you’d beat someone up over it, you’d better get married to it to prove you’re serious. Everyone knows that, right?