Post-Dobbs, Abortion Bans Have Given Abusers a New Power
"Abusers could now use new laws, or confusion about those laws, to harass and threaten their partners,” the National Domestic Violence Hotline writes in a new report about how abusive partners are using abortion bans to keep their victims trapped.
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It’s been almost two years since the Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade, and a new survey from the National Domestic Violence Hotline offers a disturbing glimpse into how abortion bans—and rampant confusion about the language of these laws and who they punish—have given abusers more control than ever.
Between October and December 2023, the Hotline conducted a survey on its website and anonymously collected domestic violence victims’ experiences with acts of reproductive coercion, or acts to control their victims’ reproductive decision-making, such as tampering with their birth control or blocking their access to abortion. The survey received 3,431 responses.
One respondent told the Hotline her partner “knowingly and forcefully kept having sex after [my] consent was withdrawn.” She “became pregnant as a result of rape” and wanted to get the morning after pill, but had no means of transportation to access it and “feared trying to go on my own, of what he would have tried to do if I left.” The window passed for her to be able to take plan B, and she got pregnant. Another wrote that her partner “got me pregnant deliberately against my will after I made it clear I didn’t want kids. I believe he did it to keep me trapped and tied to him.”
About a quarter (23%) of respondents said their current or former partner pressured them into becoming pregnant while 13% said their current or former partner used or threatened violence while they were pregnant. Almost 10% of respondents said abusive partners used or threatened violence if they expressed that they wanted an abortion.
Marium Durrani, vice president of policy at the Hotline, told Jezebel that “sadly,” these experiences reflect “what we already know about how abusers weaponize pregnancy.” But the survey also shines light on a new, horrifying phenomenon that we’re seeing more and more of, now that over a dozen states have enacted total or near-total abortion bans.
The survey found that 5% of respondents—that’s about 172 people—say that abusive partners threatened to report them to police or other legal authorities for considering having an abortion. Another 5% said partners threatened to sue or take them to court if they sought abortion care. “Regardless of the actual laws,” Durrani said, “it’s valid for victims to see them as a real threat.” As we recently saw in Texas, one man attempted to wield the state’s abortion ban to harass their ex-partner after they traveled out of state for an abortion.
“Abusers could now use new laws, or confusion about those laws, to harass and threaten their partners. And the stigma of abortion bans creates a culture where abusers feel even more entitled to control and punish their intimate partners for their reproductive decisions,” the Hotline’s report states, noting that attacks on reproductive rights “put survivor’s lives and safety at risk,” and “[further] harm by revictimizing survivors and emboldening abusive partners.”
Abortion bans technically threaten to criminalize and imprison only abortion providers and not patients, but many people, including domestic violence victims, are unaware of the specifics of these laws. This, Durrani warned, gives abusers an opening.
All I’m thinking about right now is how abusers use reproductive coercion to force their victims to stay in a dangerous relationship.