A couple of weeks ago we wrote about She’s a Homewrecker, a website started by a woman who goes by the name Ariella Alexander that offers a forum for women who would like to publicly shame the Other Woman in their lives. To some, She’s a Homewrecker put too much of the onus of cheating on the woman a man cheats with, and not on the man being fought over. But hearing the siren call from half a population not given the opportunity to air their grievances, Alexander just launched a new site: He’s a Homewrecker.
Shortly after our post on She’s a Homewrecker went up, a woman alleging to be the woman who calls herself Ariella Alexander commented, arguing that her site is fair because it shames only women who get involved with men and know they’re in a relationship already. At the same time, she said she expects these homewreckers to act better than they do:
We ONLY expose the women who CHOOSE to become involved with involved men. If you read the Exposures you will see that most of the “alleged Homewreckers” comment themselves. They make comments such as “if he was so happy with you, he wouldn’t be with me”. Or some of my favorites, as in “Thats why I f*** your husband B**ch.”
The truth is, I expect more from women. If women actually respected other women and their relationships, men would be unable to cheat. There is a thing called “Girl Code” too bad not many women follow that. As far as the cheating man? Of course we know he is at fault too but this is the page to blast the homewrecker.
All of that Girl Code aside, Alexander went on to reveal that she was launching a site to shame the men involved, which would be called He’s a Homewrecker. At first, it seemed like He’s A Homewrecker would be a site exclusively for men to write about the men that stole their ladies from them. But no: He’s a Homewrecker “is here to expose the Cheating Man in your life who has broken your heart into pieces” — OR “the man who just couldn’t stay away from your wife/girlfriend!” So, it’s a place to retread territory and place blame on the cheating men who haven’t been attacked enough, plus, give men the opportunity to do the same.
So far, the most of the few posts that make up the site have been written by women who want to shame their exes, though a couple are from men who have been cheated on. (As is the case with She’s a Homewrecker, almost all the relationships are straight ones.) Like on She’s a Homewrecker, the comments appear to be predominantly from women, though the men who have written posts and who are commenting on stories seem just as passionate about the topic as the women.
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