Purity Balls: Protecting Girls From Making Choices
LatestTLC recently reran Purity Balls, a documentary about the father/daughter cotillions celebrating girls’ pledges to remain virgins until marriage. Why is the focus solely on getting girls to protect their “purity” and so little on preventing boys from violating it?
After all, I think the term “purity balls” would be much more appropriate for Christian males who pledge to remain virgins. But aside from that, there’s a laundry list of reasons why I think purity balls are not only ridiculous, but harmful to the females who are pressured into participating in them. One of those reasons is that the fathers involved in these ceremonies think that they not only know exactly what women want and need, but are the authority on it.