Gifts for the Fanciest Bitch in Your Life

The Kyoto Costume Institute’s Fashion: A History from the 18th to the 20th Century

This two-volume set lavishly recounts the last three centuries or so of fashion, with a heavy emphasis on Western styles. Which means it includes the most frou-frou phase of all, the eighteenth century, with all those silk botanical prints and panniers the size of a Volkswagen Beetle. Look—your friend needs something to go on top of her coffee table and underneath the vase that she means to put peonies in but peonies are so expensive so instead it just collects dust. Where was I? (Amazon, $36.79)

Fancy-Ass Hand Cream in Flowery Packaging

Neutrogena is for Norwegians, okay? That’s why they call it “Norwegian formula.” Hand cream should be packaged to resemble the Victorian advertising cards that would decorate the walls of a shopgirl from a late nineteenth-century novel about the grim economic realities of the industrial age. There are peonies on the packaging of this fragrant Lollia hand lotion—perfect for the friend who just keeps cheaping out on real-deal peonies. (Lollia, $9.44)

Trays (for fancy things)

You wouldn’t want to buy that nice, overpriced hand cream just to leave it lying on your bare dresser like some goddamn slob, would you? Staging—it matters. That’s why your friend with a drawer full of fancy lotions in too-precious packaging needs a tray to contain this stuff. Like, for instance, this glass serveware piece. Just like Great Aunt Mildred’s! Alternatively, you could pop over to Etsy and order some vintage china at very reasonable prices. (Macys.com, $40)

Handkerchiefs

Some people say handkerchiefs are disgusting, bacteria-filled snot rags. Those people simply do not understand the true purpose of handkerchiefs, which is to very daintily wipe sweat off your dripping brow at the height of summer. Available in multiple palettes and varietals. (Amazon, $14.95)

A box of pralines

For when regular sugary just won’t do, and you need a bucket of sugar that’s been liquified and mixed with pecans and poured into small lumps and re-solidified to look like a normal cookie. (It’s not a normal cookie.) (One will leave you bouncing off the walls for hours—whatever you do, don’t feed them to a child after dark.) (They’re great.) (River Street Sweets, $31.95)

A bottle of Veuve Clicquot

What, you expect her to wash those pralines down with water? (Wine.com, $56.99)

Nice notecards

An important element of the frou-frou lifestyle is to send handwritten notes at important moments. Or at least, to plan on sending handwritten notes at important moments. These lovely Crane & Co notes are engraved with beautiful peacock feathers! (Crane & Co, $29.00)

Literally anything made by Cath Kidston

Everything made by Cath Kidston looks like Lewis Carroll dropped acid with Queen Elizabeth and together they broke into some Cotswolds cottage and took a bunch of teapots because they thought it was a really unorthodox antiques mall. This is the perfect aesthetic for a makeup bag, as far as yours truly is concerned. It’s hard to get Kidston in the States, but they’ve always got a few items over at Asos. Pastel roses or pastel sparrows? Look, you know your pal better than I do. (Cath Kidston, $18)

Photos via Amazon, Art.com, Macys.com, River Street Sweets, Verve Cliquot, Asos.

Illustration by Gawker Media’s art department