One Weird Trick to Making Strong Female Leads Even Better: Let Them Be Psychos

However, this central friendship between Rhaenyra and Alicent does not exist in Martin’s text. Alicent and Rhaenyra aren’t even peers. Alicent is roughly a decade older than Rhaenyra, and they pretty much hate each other from the jump. By making them not only the same age but friends, the show insists that the only thing that can make women enemies is men. And while that is a pretty typical outcome of patriarchal control, sometimes women just don’t like each other. Sometimes their actual interests are at odds. And they decide, free and clear of men, to go to war.

In HotD, it’s made very clear that young Alicent does not want to marry King Viserys, and that her father is the one forcing her into a marriage with an older man (who happens to be her best friend’s dad). But in the book, King Visaerys is in his late 20s when he marries an 18-year-old Alicent, who is actually pleased about the match. 

Add to that the many, many times the show places the unhappy fate of its women in the hands of men. Visaerys chooses to violently, horrifically seal his first wife’s fate when she dies in childbirth. Not so in the book! Lady Laena begs her dragon to kill her. Nope! Daemon is a creep, for sure, but there’s never a moment when his loyalty or faith in Rhaenyra is as obviously questioned as it is in the show. And that little family dinner in Episode 8 where Alicent seems to acquiesce to Rhaenyra’s eventual rule thanks to sad Visaerys, good wine, and fond memories? Yeah, there’s definitely no evidence for that. 

It’s this ham-fisted flattening of Alicent into a reluctant pawn that feels so counter to the precocious, ambitious, cunning character we meet in Fire & Blood, and it appears it’s unlikely this characterization will self-correct in Season 2. In the trailer we hear Alicent declaring, “This senseless war must end,” and her own son claiming “Alicent holds love for our enemy.” 

By centering HotD around these two women, there’s clearly some kind of feminist idea at work. But why do these women have to ultimately be good—or at least guided by their own ideas of “good”? Why can’t they see war, violence and death not just as inevitable but as their right to pursue, like every male character in this godforsaken universe? The show’s incessant need to make its women decent people who must scrabble for their own agency even from dragonback is exhausting. 

Fire & Blood isn’t a story of boys versus girls. It’s a story about the beginning of the end for a seemingly invincible dynasty. The Targaryens have dragons, and they’ve inbred to maintain their bloodline (eep) but they have totally lost control of themselves. Their obsession with succession blinds them all, male and female alike, to the fact that every victory is pyrrhic when the family feuds. And the women are just as foolish and bloodthirsty as the men.

I’m not sure why that had to change for TV. Looking around our own world, I see no shortage of women who embrace their guns and their wars as tightly as their families. Were they worried an audience just wouldn’t believe that two women would wreak havoc in the name of power? 

I implore creators to stop interpreting feminism as the moral elevation of women; we’re not better, we’re just equal. And the sooner TV shows recognize this, the sooner I can stop writing columns about fictional character ages in historical texts about fake worlds to prove a point. Just because women can be killjoy nerds doesn’t mean we want to be!